By Rachel Shatto May 3, When you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, dirty talk can easily come to mind. At face value, dirty talk seems relatively straightforward and easy to do.
However, it can still be a bit daunting, because if you're shy, or you haven't tried it before, or you don't know where to start, it can feel like a pretty big leap. I mean, what would you even say?
Well, good news: If you're looking to add some frisky language to your repertoire, I've rounded up some dirty talk phrases for beginners that you can try out this very night. The key to introducing dirty talk is to just ease into it with hot dirty talking that feel organic and natural — but that inspire the imagination and get the mojo flowing. These are small ways to dip your toes into the naughty-talk waters, because it can all be a bit intimidating, but so fun once you get the hang of it.
Chances are, you'll discover it's actually more fun thank you could've guessed, and you'll get more and more comfortable the more you do it. Before you'll know it, you'll be a dirty-talk pro. But first thing's first: Below, some level-one ideas to get you started.
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Talk about how you feel. One of the best ways to ease into a little dirty talk is to just think about how you're feeling in the moment, and describe the effect they're having on you.
It will make them feel amazing be much more organic for you. Added bonus: It's a great way to encourage and direct your partner toward doing more of what you want in bed.
If you're feeling a little bolder, try whispering your plans for them gently in their ear. Trust me when I say a little dirty talk in a low voice will guarantee you their full attention. Take control by giving talkint instructions on exactly what feels good for you.
Then want you to kiss every part of my body. Not to mention how totally hot you may both find it. More like this.